What is “spending guilt” and how can financial planning help?

Saving for the future is an important part of your financial plan. By setting aside funds now, you can build wealth that you will use to reach certain milestones and fund your lifestyle in retirement.

Without a clear saving and investing strategy, you can’t achieve lasting financial security and freedom.

However, too much focus on the future can lead to “spending guilt” – feeling bad about spending money in the short term.

When this guilt drives your decisions, you risk missing out on enjoying life now.

Read on to learn more about spending guilt and how a strong financial plan helps you overcome it.

Spending guilt can make people of all ages reluctant to spend in the short term

Spending guilt is born from concerns about the future. When you make a purchase, you might worry that spending money now means you’re not contributing enough to your savings, potentially threatening your future security.

Research shows that this is common for younger people, as the Standard reports that 59% of 16- to 19-year-olds feel guilty when they spend money.

However, you’re equally likely to experience spending guilt in your later years if you worry about running out of money in retirement.

According to Wealthtime, 24% of retirees think they are spending less than they could comfortably afford, most likely because they’re concerned about how long their savings will last.

Overall, spending guilt can lead you to be very restrictive about your budget and make the process of buying something feel incredibly negative.

As a result, you might cut back on spending and maximise contributions to your savings. While this may seem like a positive, you might end up saving far more than you realistically need and sacrificing your quality of life in the short term.

Your financial plan gives you a clear picture of how much you need to save

One of the benefits of a financial plan is that you can set realistic savings targets.

We will discuss your desired retirement lifestyle with you and consider how much income you’ll likely need each year to achieve this.

Then, we can use cashflow forecasting to consider how much you should contribute to pensions, savings, and investments each month to build a retirement pot that can sustain your chosen lifestyle.

Once you have this figure, you know exactly how much to save each month, leaving the rest of your income available for spending.

Armed with this information, you can make short-term purchases, safe in the knowledge that you’re saving enough to reach your future goals, too. This is particularly true if you “pay yourself first” by contributing to your savings and investments as soon as you get paid each month.

That way, you can spend the rest of your income guilt-free.

Setting clear goals makes your spending feel more intentional

Spending guilt can often come from impulse purchases. It’s easy to spend on frivolous items that don’t add much value to your life, leaving you feeling like you’ve wasted money that you could have saved instead.

However, when you create a financial plan, you set clear goals and think carefully about how you want to allocate your income each month.

This can help you change your mindset and make spending more intentional.

When creating your budget, you can factor in spending on luxuries. This means that, instead of being impulse spending that you later feel guilty about, these purchases are a carefully considered part of your financial plan.

A robust financial plan gives you the confidence to spend

Reluctance to spend and the feelings of guilt that may come after a purchase can also be rooted in uncertainty about the future.

If you are unsure whether you will be able to afford a comfortable retirement or provide vital financial support to family members, you might be apprehensive about spending now.

However, when you’re confident that your future is secure, you might not feel so guilty about enjoying yourself in the short term.

Research shows that financial planning provides that confidence, as Aviva reports that 88% of advised clients say that the support they receive gives them peace of mind.

Get in touch

With our help, you can balance your short- and long-term needs so you can enjoy life today while also securing your financial future.

Please give us a call on 01276 855717 or email info@braywealth.com today.

Please note

This article is for general information only and does not constitute advice. The information is aimed at individuals only.

All information is correct at the time of writing and is subject to change in the future.

The Financial Conduct Authority does not regulate cashflow planning.

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